Research and Writing More on BDSM in My writing

Just finished a scene in the sequel to Wish List where my main character is tethered between trees and has a riding crop taken to her flesh. In the piece she fully participates in the moment and apart from some embarrassment over being naked outdoors and nervous that anyone could come along and witness her submission she thoroughly enjoys it.

It’s about helping her realize her true desires and what turns her on, but it’s made me wonder how most people are introduced to new sexual experiences and how far is too far for my main characters to go.

The mental aspect of her submission is very appealing but I find the characters not wanting to experience anything too extreme. If this is their hang up or mine I’m not sure.

Can you experience a softer side of BDSM or does it become something else entirely when the more extreme elements are removed how far is too far and how far are you willing to push yourself or your partner?

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